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Jul 8, 2014 || by eayana
All Men Are Liars
The Bland of the Southern Cross
Yesterday, canada goose outlet jackets my mate Gibbo sent me this picture of a football player named Ben Rogers, shirt off, proudly displaying his tattoos of not only the Southern Cross but the Australian coat of arms as well.
This was disappointing for me because Rogers will probably be the starting five eighth canada goose outlet canada for my rugby league team, the canada goose outlet store South Sydney Rabbitohs, and if Benny is myopic enough to get that tattooed on his back, I’m not confident about the accuracy of his kicking game.
Some time in the last 18 months, the Southern Cross tattoo passed a threshold with me not because of the image itself, but the blokes I saw sporting it and became the Australian equivalent of the American Confederate flag.
There now seems to be a jut jawed, “f you if you don’t like Australia” message going on behind the ink, a not so canada goose outlet black friday subtle “we grew here, you flew here” hostility which anoints the wearer as “more Aussie” because he has https://www.dvu-nds.de the Southern Cross scrawled on his shoulder.
The saying he “wraps himself in the flag” suggests a man who pretends to do something for patriotic reasons but his real motive is more personal and I think the surge in Southern Cross and Australian flag tattoos we’ve seen needled onto flesh official canada goose outlet since the 2005 Cronulla riots edges toward that: it has little to do with patriotism.
To me, it represents fear the desire to intimidate people from “non white” backgrounds, but also fearfulness men and women who are afraid of a world bigger and more complex than “we eat meat, we drink beer and we speak f ing English!”
Part of it is a herd mentality and like canada goose uk shop most herds this one is homogeneous Anglo Saxon youngsters with a “if you don’t love it, leave” attitude.
(I don’t reckon there’s too many Australians of Italian, Lebanese, Greek, Indian, Vietnamese or Chinese backgrounds who sport a Southern Cross sticker on their chest but feel free to post photos if you can find them.)
Part of it is also context: I’d say canada goose coats on sale a 45 year old digger fighting in canada goose jacket outlet Afghanistan who has a 15 year old Southern Cross tattoo probably got his for different reasons than some 25 year old plumber from The Shire.
My favourite philosopher, Eric Hoffer, wrote many years ago that “the less justified a man is in claiming excellence for his own self, the more ready he is to claim excellence for his nation, his religion, his race or his holy cause.”
Most great patriots are great people; they enhance their country’s standing instead of assuming a flagpole on their front lawn will enhance them.
Can you imagine Charles Kingsford Smith, Caroline Chisholm, Albert Namatjira or John Simpson getting a Southern Cross tattoo today? You reckon Fred Hollows or Ted Noffs would have sprung for a Boxing Kangaroo on their backs?
The Southern Cross tattoo has almost nothing do with patriotism and everything to do with insecurity, fear and a profound lack of originality.
I mean if it was all about being so damn proud of being born here, why not get this tatt instead?
If you’d like to email me with a topic suggestion or just vent, try here. I now have too many unanswered emails to catch up on, so I’m instituting a no reply policy (unless you’re hot). In advance, I thank you for your email.
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